Talking about wanting to die or disappear
Self-harm marks or admission
Panic attack / hyperventilating
Dissociation / “not present”
Extreme hopelessness or numbness
Aggression or sudden shutdown
Leaving the area or attempting to run
Risk-taking behaviour
Substance use
Abuse disclosure
Social media threats
Relationship breakdown
Family violence or being kicked out of home
Saying they have nowhere safe to stay
Teens need respect, autonomy, and safety.
DO
Speak calmly and privately (but visible)
Ask directly about self-harm/suicide
Validate feelings
Listen more than talk
DON’T
Minimise feelings
Try to “fix”
Promise secrecy
Shame behaviour
Ask directly:
“Are you thinking about hurting yourself right now?”
If YES or unsure → HIGH RISK
If they say they are unsafe at home or homeless → treat as SAFETY RISK
Never leave the teen alone.
One leader stays. One contacts Transit or Youth Director
Slow breathing
Offer water
Grounding (“Name 5 things you see”)
Calm reassurance:
“I’m really glad you told me.”
“You’re not in trouble.”
Please ensure you follow The Rocks Safe Child Policybefore contacting any of these services below (unless there is IMMEDIATE DANGER to the teen)
If suicidal intent, self-harm, medical risk, violence, or teen is unsafe:
📞 000 — Emergency Services (Police/Ambulance)
Mental Health Emergency Response Line (MHERL) – 24/7 clinicians
📞 1300 555 788 (Perth Metro)
📞 1800 676 822 (Peel)
Lifeline — 13 11 14 (suicide crisis support)
Suicide Call Back Service — 1300 659 467
Beyond Blue — 1300 22 4636
Kids Helpline (ages 5–25) — 1800 55 1800
headspace— 1800 650 890
Entrypoint Perth – homelessness referral & assessment: 1800 124 684
Crisis Care – 24/7 crisis and wellbeing support: 1800 199 008
Mission Australia Youth Accommodation Support Service (YASS) – crisis & transitional for 15-25 yrs - 9329 4480
Passages Youth Engagement Hub – offers a drop-in service for young people aged 12-25 years to access food, showers, clothing, computers, and other basic needs, in a safe, supported space staffed by trained youth workers. Passages can also assist with referrals to other specialised agencies – 9228 1478
Victoria Park Youth Accommodation – supported housing for 15-25 yrs - 9361 4118
Fusion Student Household Service – safe housing + support for 15-24 yrs - 9355 1159
Sussex Street Community Law Services provides financial counselling, assistance with public or private tenancy concerns and legal services – 6253 9500
Youth Legal Service legal services and Children’s Court representation – 9202 1688
Drug and Alcohol Youth Service information and treatment services – 9222 6373
Holyoake for young people directly or indirectly affected by drug and alcohol use – 9416 4444
Contact parents unless doing so places the teen at further risk (follow The Rocks Safe Child Policy)
Say
“Thank you for telling me.”
“That sounds really heavy.”
“You don’t have to handle this alone.”
Avoid
“Others have it worse.”
“Just pray about it.”
“You’re overreacting.”
• What was observed
• What child said
• Actions taken
• Who was notified (parents, child protection, services.
After the child/teen is safe and immediate actions have been taken, reporting must happen. This protects the young person, the leader, and the organisation. Below are forms to submit your report.